How We Met

Our love story starts out in 2003 with a man and his dog in Dallas, Texas and woman snowed in, in Kansas City, Missouri. I’m originally from Texas so the Kansas City winters were killing me. I hardly even went out to the store let alone dated. Mostly stayed at home and played online computer games. I wasn’t interested in romance at the time.

Meanwhile my husband to be was in Dallas taking his mini schnauzer for a walk. The dog, Willum, slipped his leash and ran off. Hubby to be took off after him tearing though yards and alleys. He stepped in a hole and blew out his Achilles tendon. A neighbor found the dog and brought him home. Hubby went to the hospital the next day for surgery to repair his ankle. He ended up in a wheelchair with a cast on his leg.

Months later still in a cast and going crazy from boredom, he decided to try online gaming for something to do. He found an obscure online multiplayer game and decided to try it. I was already playing that game. We met the very first night he was in the game. Somehow we hit it off and started talking. We discovered that we were both from Dallas and that he was male and I was female. An important fact to establish in a fantasy world.

It is a miracle that we met at all. Considering the fact that neither one of us was looking for a mate and neither of us left the house much. The cosmos decided to bring us together despite our every effort to remain single.

As the months went by we met and talked in the games for hours. Sometimes until 2 or 3 in the morning. We graduated to talking on the telephone. About a year later we decided to meet in person. I flew from Kansas City to Dallas thinking I was crazy to do this but what the heck. He met me at the airport with a dozen yellow roses, my favorite. I can’t say it was love at first sight because we already loved each other’s brains and hearts. The seeing part was the last thing to happen in our chain of events.

We went out to a lovely seafood restaurant, Vincent’s, and had a nice dinner and then home to his house. No sooner did we walk in the door the phone rang. It was his father on the phone. Father was hysterical because mother had eaten some bad chicken and was violently ill. So our date ended abruptly with him leaving to take his mother to the emergency room. I watched TV on the sofa a dozed on and off until he came home at 3:00 am.

I had to get back to Kansas City for work on Monday. So that was our first date in a nutshell. His parents felt so bad about the disruption that they bought me a plane ticket to come back the next month. The next visit was in March. We talked about me moving home to Texas. I wanted to come home anyway. So we did some apartment shopping and I went home to Kansas City to think it over.

He told me much later that his parents and he decided that I was a keeper after I didn’t get upset because he left our date to tend to his mother. My feeling was that you have to respect a man who cares enough for his parents to end a first date to help them.

A month later the decision I made my decision. On April 15th ,2004, he hopped in his truck and drove to Kansas City to fetch me. In the meantime I packed up and sold everything that I wasn’t taking with me. With everything I owned crammed in the back of his truck and my little Mazda we drove back to Dallas the next day.

The trip back had a few minor glitches. By the time we got to the Dallas area it as dark and I ended up following the wrong truck and exited onto another freeway. He noticed that I wasn’t behind me and called me on my cell phone. We met up in the parking lot of a restaurant that we ate in on my previous visit because I knew where it was. We made it home without further incident.

I stayed at his house for a few weeks while we apartment shopped for me. Finally one day he said “I don’t want you to go, why don’t you just stay here.” That settled it. We’ve been together for 8 years now. We celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary last week. We’ve had our ups and downs because real life is not the same as a fantasy game. But we still love each other more than ever. And that’s what counts.

PS: Forgot to credit the lady at for the idea for this post

10 responses

  1. Great story, and I’m so glad you shared it.

  2. OH that’s just gorgeous! Mr HoT and I met in a Tom Robbins discussion group way back in 95. I was here in Auckland and he was in San Francisco and thousands of miles of Pacific Ocean and more complications than anyone could have imaged standing between us. You are so right about falling in love with hearts and minds… Nothing could stop us, especially not good sense. Got married in January 2000 and it just keeps getting better. happy happy to us both!

  3. Great story and yes, I’ve communictaed with the lovely lady at a couple of times too and never actually got around to providing her with anything.

    Love your story, really great stuff – and shows how much life has changed from the “old days” pre-technology!

  4. aw, how neat. I’ve been wondering how you guys met. I can’t decide if I’m curious or just nosy. Either way, I’m glad you posted this cool story.

    1. It was fun to share our story. The lady at gave me the idea.

  5. Great story. I love it.

  6. What a crazy story! What’s funny is that my sister did a similar thing (minus the meeting online part) and moved to Dallas for her man (they just got married this past April). Must be something about those Dallas men, huh?

    1. Oh that is so cool. I think Dallas men are special too 🙂 I was born in Dallas and moved away. Glad to be home.

  7. candyforbreakfast | Reply

    Following the wrong truck,now that’s funny.Thank goodness you were in Dallas and not Kansas.How did people survive before cellphones?

    1. That’s a good question. How did we survive before cell phone? I guess I would have had to wait until he went home and then call his house.

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